Kindest Regards, Faithfulservant!
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Originally Posted by Faithfulservant
I suppose to one that has not followed dialogue between certain individuals you would not see the culmination of attacks and disrespect so my err was scolding someone on one thread when its been many threads that have caused it. That of course creates confusion to the people that are just reading a thread called The Fundamentals of Christianity. I could have titled the thread called Why should we be tolerant of Christian Fundamentalists.. OR Not all Christian Fundamentalists are hypocrites and Warmongers... But I didnt. Thank you for all your patience.. Juantoo3 and once again my apologies to people that dont know what the heck is going on.
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You are right, I did not catch the gist from elsewhere. But I have seen it before, so I do understand a little about your frustration. I guess in the spirit of "be kind to your enemies...", I expect more from Christians. I am being a little biased, but I think it is important for us as Christians to set the example, to lead the way as it were.
I had a thought. It may not work, but if you and the rest are up to it here is my suggestion:
Perhaps we could explore others' perceptions, good and bad, of Christians and Christianity.
Let me explain. Do you remember the Serenity prayer? I think it is attributed to St. Francis of Assisi, but that is unimportant here and now. As I recall, it goes something like: "Lord, let me accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference." It is in this spirit I would like to see this discussion continued. Of course, that is up to you.
For example, I see a lot of people automatically assume that Christians are fundamentalists, and by that they mean closed-minded and not open to other points of view. To which you have seen me many times state that Christians are not the only ones capable of this type of thinking. This represents acceptance, to a degree, but based on the individual, not the Christian faith in its entirety. And by being able to communicate with those who disagree with you, always respectfully regardless (unless the disrespect aimed at you is blatant), demonstrates in a real way courage to change the things that can be changed, either you, them or both. And the whole exercise is an example of the wisdom to know the difference.
Many people from all walks of life have had bad experiences with Christians and Christianity. So, to a degree some inappropriate attitude is expected. However, and this is mainly directed to other participants who might view this as an opportunity to be disrespectful, those experiences are undoubtedly from limited exposure to unwise individuals who do not represent the truth and beauty found in our faith.
I might add, it is not altogether helpful to simply list Bible verses to support your position. It would be a great help to others who might not be familiar with the Bible and Christianity if you also included a context, what the verse(s) mean applied to the situation, and your personal interpretation of what it all means.
You and Bandit both, and I could name several others here, have been generally great sports, and it
is difficult to put up with intolerant behavior from equally unwise individuals of other faiths who likewise do not represent their faiths. My goal and intent is to establish a tolerant and respectful dialogue between faiths. Acceptance is not mandatory, that is not even a consideration. But being able to disagree in a respectful manner is.
I expect some difficulty from time to time, but I am certain you are capable of handling it, if you are up to the task. Should you choose to accept, I hope that God will guide the endeavor.
As a moderator, I feel it is only right if I play spectator and referee, rather than participant, although I might add two cents from time to time. I want you to know though, that I will be away soon for a short time, and will not be able to participate directly at all. Brian is aware, and I am certain he has made other arrangements.
Best of wishes to you, and God bless.
Shalom.