How did you choose?

[Quahom1]

Interesting thread.

Like Postmaster, I was born into mine. But they tried to stuff so much of it down my throat as a youngster, and "chastised" me (to put it mildly), for asking questions, that I threw it away. (think of the 1950s and 60s mentality). I kept the very base core of it though, because inside I believed that part to be true. Then over the years, I learned to defend myself against overzealous preachers, when I asked questions. I must admit I was a stone wall when they tried to put me in my place. But then they started to answer me, sometimes with crystal clarity, sometimes with muddied water, and sometimes with an "I just don't know". That's when I realized that my religion was acceptable to me. There is beauty in it I haven't found anywhere else. Some of it I take with a grain of salt, or blow off completely, but most of it holds a truth that strikes a resonate chord within.

Religion though I find is like sand in one's hand...hold it with flat palms and the wind will wick it away, squeeze it in fists and it just sifts through the fingers. Cup it easy, and the whole of it remains.

my two cents.

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[truthseeker]

Originally Posted by ISFP

it can take a long, long time to find a religious tradition you feel at home with. also, you may find a tradition and grow apart from it spiritually over a period of time.
...it's also ok to believe and do one's own thing independent of a faith tradition. that's what i did for years ("spiritual but not religious").

And that is so true. Some people fall into the thing that they know and don't feel the need to look any further. The reason why I am a truthseeker is because religion has been used to conquer and control; my spirituality is so important to me that I want it to be controlled only by the influence of the Supreme Being - be He called God, Jehovah, Allah - so be it. Nonetheless I counsel with others so as to not get puffed up on my own understanding and lose the path of the travel.

Originally Posted by brucegbc

Or if you can't decide which hat one looks best, wear them in rotation or all at once.:-)

I agree with that as well. I believe everybody has a point. I don't believe all the mysteries are satisfied in the New Testament. We all have pieces to the puzzle. As we come to understand eachother, the pieces are being fitted.

[Geist]

I learnt something a while ago and I think its the reason why I have no religion so far. I figured out to me life is a series of accidents and through making mistakes I learn whats right and whats not right. I also believe that I haven't found a relgion simmiler to this otherwise I would not be posting this. Does it make sense to anyone here??

[Friend]

Salaam to all

I,Brian reply
Indeed, if no hat fits, wear no hat...

nice answer ...I add my point ...u can put all hats ...and observe them to see the suitable one to u.
I'm born muslim ,also I search about the truth about my religion and the wisdom behind each teaching in Islam...and I believe that it is my right worship and persuasive faith path...I didn't evaluate my religion according to the people whom follow Islam ,but according to the original references because people always apply their perception and thoughts which may wrong .

[truthseeker]

Originally Posted by Geist

I learnt something a while ago and I think its the reason why I have no religion so far. I figured out to me life is a series of accidents and through making mistakes I learn whats right and whats not right. I also believe that I haven't found a relgion simmiler to this otherwise I would not be posting this. Does it make sense to anyone here??

Sounds to me that you have found a path. Now it is time to put one foot in front of the other. If you are looking for a set of rules in regard to what's right and what's not right, then pick a religion according to your culture. If you want the freedom to continue to figure it out for yourself, then there is no religion for you - only an awakening of your spirituality. When you get much older, and you are satisfied with the sum of things you understand about life, it will be easier for you to pick a religion. There is so much knowledge in the world - you can not acquire it all in one lifetime. All you can do is uncover the knowledge set out for you on your path. Prayer and being true to yourself will actualize who you are right now, the person you have yet to see.

[StarshipEnterprise]

I was born a Christian, but I have recently strayed from that religon. I have decided to be open to all religons and philosiphies, but I will only beleive what can be proven to me. Buddhism is my favorite religion, it is so open minded compassionate, and open to other reliogions. But I don't see myself ever being a fully fleged Buddhist. I think religions often divide people needlessly, and that people should put aside their differences and search for spiritual and moral truth together.

[Bandit]

Originally Posted by Quahom1

Interesting thread.

Like Postmaster, I was born into mine. But they tried to stuff so much of it down my throat as a youngster, and "chastised" me (to put it mildly), for asking questions, that I threw it away. (think of the 1950s and 60s mentality). I kept the very base core of it though, because inside I believed that part to be true. Then over the years, I learned to defend myself against overzealous preachers, when I asked questions. I must admit I was a stone wall when they tried to put me in my place. But then they started to answer me, sometimes with crystal clarity, sometimes with muddied water, and sometimes with an "I just don't know". That's when I realized that my religion was acceptable to me. There is beauty in it I haven't found anywhere else. Some of it I take with a grain of salt, or blow off completely, but most of it holds a truth that strikes a resonate chord within.

Religion though I find is like sand in one's hand...hold it with flat palms and the wind will wick it away, squeeze it in fists and it just sifts through the fingers. Cup it easy, and the whole of it remains.

my two cents.

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i feel really lucky because it was never crammed down my throat. I come from a church of only about 900 people, but they really did teach us spiritual matters with every day living and principles because the people and leaders really care and not just give us bull...and like you say the CORE is what really matters most. I would not trade the bible or Jesus for anything because they have never failed me.

[Dor]

I didnt choose. I was born into a family that was Southern Baptist. Then through trials and tribulations where I questioned everything. Dabbled in everything from Hinduism and Budhism to full fledged Demonology and all forms of occultic stuff. Then one day when the whole world was as bleak as it could get and I was basically staring death in the face. I felt a little knock and basically felt Jesus asking if I was ready to let him come back. And I will admit as soon as I let him back in control. I have been blessed in numerous ways and have honestly not felt any fears or doubts since that day.

[Geist]

See you guys where brought up with a relgion and you stuck to it eventually because your so used to it. But I don't have anything to go by at all XD oh joy.

[brucegdc]

Well, in my case, I was brought up in one, switched later, and am still wandering around looking for the best fit... you're not alone, Geist. My suggestion is go with your beliefs of what is right & correct, and look for something that fits.

[purity]

hello everyone i am new here and just going through the topics of discussion and came across this.

i believe you should have to pick a religion as this world is only temporary and everyone dies at a certain age.

looking for the correct religion you need to seek and understand which religion is of truth and also act upon it.

[Quahom1]

Originally Posted by purity

hello everyone i am new here and just going through the topics of discussion and came across this.

i believe you should have to pick a religion as this world is only temporary and everyone dies at a certain age.

looking for the correct religion you need to seek and understand which religion is of truth and also act upon it.

Hi Purity! And welcome to CR!

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[Quahom1]

Originally Posted by Geist

See you guys where brought up with a relgion and you stuck to it eventually because your so used to it. But I don't have anything to go by at all XD oh joy.

Hey Geist,

I think Bruce, Bandit and I were brought up in a "faith", the "religion" part is like the car we choose to drive. The "faith" part is that we drive a car. We believe in one God. (somebody slap me silly if I'm wrong).

Why, do you want to have something to go by? Just curious...

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[Bandit]

Originally Posted by Geist

See you guys where brought up with a relgion and you stuck to it eventually because your so used to it. But I don't have anything to go by at all XD oh joy.

it has nothing to do with me being used to it. it is tried and true and religion has nothing to do with it. some feel thay have to seek out every man made religion ever made only to end up still feeling lost.
dont think i did not do my share of testing waters and running to and fro in this old world, but sertainly not putting trust in religioso madn made doctrine.
i consider myself very fortunate that i got what i got
i dont need to light candles and sit on pillows.

depends on what you are looking for Geist.

its God, Jesus and the Bible or bust for me .

[Bandit]

Originally Posted by Quahom1

Hey Geist,

I think Bruce, Bandit and I were brought up in a "faith", the "religion" part is like the car we choose to drive. The "faith" part is that we drive a car. We believe in one God. (somebody slap me silly if I'm wrong).

Why, do you want to have something to go by? Just curious...

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that sounds about right Q One Lord, One faith and One baptism